Why I Chose the Unlicensed Route in Texas for Marriage and Family Counseling
Y’all, let’s get real.
I’m deeply committed to the art and science of marriage and family counseling. I got my master’s in 2009, passed the national exam, and hustled through all 2,000 hours required for licensure because this work matters.
But here’s the deal — I’ve chosen not to get licensed as a marriage and family therapist here in the heart of Texas.
And why, you ask?
Because my ethical compass doesn’t just spin hither and yon, and frankly, Texas and I are in a bit of a standoff on a few BIG issues.
Here’s the lowdown on what I won’t stand for:
Regulatory Rundowns: Nope, I won’t let my practice be dictated by a board that still thinks conversion therapy is okay. This outdated and debunked notion of flipping someone's sexual orientation or gender identity? All the major health organizations tossed it out ages ago. So have I. And, with the shifting political winds, states might get even more say over LGBTQ+ rights, and that hits close to home for marriages like mine.
Anti-Divorce Dilemmas: Texas is tightening the reins on divorce, making it harder and more costly to split, which predominantly slams women, who initiate two-thirds of these breakups. Also, women (and men) could be stuck in harmful marriages if they can’t afford the cost.
Educational Embargoes: Oh, and the state’s putting a cap on what we can learn and teach about gender identity and same-sex relationships. That’s my professional freedom — and a rich diversity of resources — on the line.
DEI Dismissals: They’re also trying to axe Diversity, Equity, and Inclusion roles. These positions are crucial for nurturing understanding and backing diverse communities. Why cut what helps us grow?
Abortion Access: And don’t get me started on the severe anti-abortion laws here. They're ignoring critical women's health rights, even in dire situations.
So, there it is. This isn’t about a piece of paper hanging on my wall—it’s about standing tall for what’s right. It’s about making darn sure everyone who steps into my office or appears on my Zoom screen is met with the respect and care they absolutely deserve.
