Divorce Doesn’t Have to Damage Your Kids

I’ll Show You a Better Way

Private coaching for parents who want to end their marriage—without ending their family.

You never wanted to be here.

Divorce wasn’t in the plan—not for you, not for your kids. But here you are, navigating a time that feels terrifying.

You’ve heard the horror stories…

The kids who never recover.

The ex’s who turn into lifelong enemies.

The “broken” families that never quite heal.

Deep down, you’re asking yourself: Am I about to do that to my own kids?

The answer is NO.

You’re not.

I’m Julia. As a marriage and family counselor and divorce coach, I guide parents through tough transitions. Don’t believe the scary stories, a peaceful separation is possible - and the kids might be better for it.

Two Parents. Two Perspectives.

One Big Mess.

You may have seen a marriage counselor together, but now that you’re divorcing, you don’t have that same support.

Everyone retreats to their side of the ring with their own people, and things get really messy, really fast.

Two parents. Two therapists. Two lawyers. Two different stories. And suddenly, no one is talking—except through their attorneys.

That’s when families start to fracture—not because of the divorce, but because there’s no shared strategy for what comes next.

Most Parents Get Support.

Few Get Aligned.

What makes my approach unique—and effective—is that I work with both parents. That may sound impossible, but listen:

When I can see both of you—your strengths, your pain points, your parenting styles—I can actually help each of you more effectively.

Instead of two sets of advice that compete or conflict, you get one aligned strategy, one steady voice, and one shared goal: raising healthy, grounded kids, even in two homes.

I’m not working in a vacuum. I support each of you with full awareness of the other, which allows me to diffuse tension, clarify communication, and protect your child’s emotional well-being.

Because of the depth of this work, I only support a small number of families at a time. You’re not just a client—you’re in my care.

And that’s a responsibility I take seriously.

A New Kind of Parenting Plan,

for a New Kind of Family

I guide you through the decisions that matter most: schedules, communication, transitions, and expectations with:

✅ Private coaching and on-call support—for both of you— from someone who knows the emotional and practical realities inside and out


✅ Crisis management between sessions—helping you stay grounded and respond (not react) when things get messy


✅ Peace of mind knowing you’re doing everything possible to protect your children’s emotional well-being

It’s not about doing more.

It’s about doing the right things, at the right time, with someone who can guide both of you through it—clearly, calmly, and with your kids in mind.

Ready to sink your teeth into something that will help this minute? (I’ve felt that urgency, too.)

How to Navigate Divorce (without F*cking Up Your Kid)

The title not only comes from my propensity for profanity, but it’s also the #1 phrase I hear from parents.

From exactly how to tell the kids (and how NOT to, from experience) to helpful terminology and co-parenting resources, this 40 page e-book is here to help you learn how to parent together during and after your divorce.

The resource I wish someone had given me during my own divorce.

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Here is the good news.

This could be the most responsible, loving decision you ever make for your kids.

It's not the divorce that hurts children - it's the non-stop conflict in your home.

The tension, the resentment, the subtle (or not-so-subtle) battles waged in front of them. It doesn't have to be that way.

And you don’t have to figure it all out alone.

Take action today.

If you're in the thick of it—or just realizing your marriage is ending—you’re in the right place.

I’ve pulled together some free tools to help you take a breath, get clear, and start co-parenting with more purpose and less panic.

When you're ready for more than just resources—reach out.

I work closely with a small number of families at a time, so if you’re looking for steady guidance, clear direction, and someone who can actually help you co-parent through this chaos, let’s talk.


No salesy pressure. Just a real conversation about what support could look like.